I can easily over-react with my kids and horses. So now if they touch me with their fuzzy noses or lean on me a little here or there when loping circles I dont have a cow. I watched Todd Bergan and Trent Pederson schooling their horses at the show yesterday and if their horses made a mistake they stopped the horse or slowed down, corrected the mistake, and started over. If Todds horse started the turn around all out of whack, he would stop everything, soften the face, start over, and the horse would spin perfect. Same with the circles- if the horse leaned in to the circle he would break down to a walk, or trot, move the shoulder back out- leaving the circle- sometimes counter cantering out for a short time. Then he would start over in the circle- every time, just about, he would break to a walk in the middle, but he wouldnt lope through the part of the circle where the horse wanted to fall in- he repeated the correction time after time at a very slow pace- methodically, without OVERREACTING. I noticed with one horse in particular, he deliberately kept his spurs off of him- the horse looked off right in a left circle and he just pulled the head around with pressure on the neck rein also and kind of just wrestled the horse a little until it softened, the he would repeat the process, taking care to not upset the horse unduly, he repeated this time,and time again.
Trent never let his horse take a step or speed up without authorization. But he never panicked- just stopped and started over. Of course, this is a reining, standard- authorization- but sometimes accompanied by overreaction- and its confusing to the horse and can easily upset a wound up type- and cause him to lose confidence.
This was especially helpful for me to see this and I thank God for allowing me to see these things at just the right time in my journey.
Also these guys helped out other trainers- its amazing how many high profile trainers help their horses too much in the turn around and cant seem to get over it. I guess we all do at times.